Our parents told us our coming of age would be our high school graduation. They told us that after graduation we would be off to college to start our new lives as adults. They said we’d finally be able to be whatever we wanted to be. What they didn’t tell us, what our parents couldn’t possibly have known, is that our true coming of age would be much later. After the drop-outs, after the squandered money, after the parties and drugs and the tedious mind numbing menial jobs, the only jobs we could get, after we had hit rock bottom. That’s when we really came of age. Because it’s after you have nothing left that you begin to be willing to barter, to deal, to trade away anything you have left for a chance at that golden adult life that had been promised to you. And if there’s anything movies and fiction has taught us, it’s that if you’re willing to deal, someone, or something, always has an offer. You can have money, power, sex, anything you could possibly desire. All you have to be is willing to pay the price. Our humanity seemed like such a small fee. How could we have known? No one ever warned us except the movies.
– Jason Tilden from “A Tale of Fire : From Men to Gods”